This article gives some answers about what God's think of our pain--it's hopeful, encouraging and realistic.
"To be a Christian doesn’t mean that we will never have to suffer. Sometimes we have the idea that once we join ourselves to Christ, somehow he is on our team, and he’s going to protect us from anything hard happening. Actually..."
Duration: 4 mins
Source: https://www.crossway.org/articles/what-does-god-think-of-my-pain/